Top 10 Emotional Needs: Episode 3: Conversation

Episode 3 December 01, 2020 00:35:11
Top 10 Emotional Needs: Episode 3: Conversation
The Story Of US with Herson and Valerie
Top 10 Emotional Needs: Episode 3: Conversation

Dec 01 2020 | 00:35:11

/

Show Notes

In this episode, Herson and Valerie "Valson" talk about how they have navigated around each other's high emotional need for meaningful conversation giving humorous and sometimes very touching anecdotes.  

Show Notes:

Good conversation is characterized by the following: (1) using it to inform and investigate each other, (2) focusing attention on topics of mutual interest, (3) balancing the conversation so both have an equal opportunity to talk, and (4) giving each other undivided attention while talking to each other.

Conversation fails to meet this need when (1) demands are made, (2) disrespect is shown, (3) one or both become angry, or (4) when it is used to dwell on mistakes of the past or present.

Some of this material is from the book "His Needs Her Needs: Building A Marriage That Lasts

This Series is brought to you by Forest Haven. A place for pastors to come away with the Lord and rest. (Mark 6:31)

www.foresthavennh.org

Other Episodes

Episode 1

January 11, 2020 00:31:08
Episode Cover

Bring Back That Love'n Feeling

Welcome to our first show of 2020. We are so happy you joined us.  This podcast is dedicated to helping couples discover the beauty...

Listen

Episode 2

November 24, 2020 00:24:08
Episode Cover

Top 10 Emotional Needs: Episode 2: Sexual Fulfillment

Let's talk about sex. But not just the act... sexual fulfillment is something that goes way beyond the act of sex.  When you are...

Listen

Episode 2

November 21, 2019 00:33:33
Episode Cover

Pretending

Herson & Valerie talk about how they learned how to pretend to be happy by posing for pictures early in their marriage. Snapshots of...

Listen